One important thing that you must know about us INTJs; we fall in love with peoples’ minds – your looks are just bonuses.
Now if you managed to win over an INTJs heart, then that must mean you are pretty damn special. After all, you do not see saddles on Unicorns.
One thing is for sure when you have our hearts; that our heart is now yours forever to keep. Please be gentle with our hearts, for we do not merely give it out because when we give our hearts, we give our mind to you too – we will give you our everything.
For imagery sake; imagine our heart is at the bottom of the ocean, inside a diamond encrusted clam, this clam is then inside a heavily padlocked chest, whereby a sea dragon guards this chest. On land, there is a 5ft female guardian (yes, not tall at all), covered in Armour and is highly trained in combat and all weaponry (whips, archery, sword, knife throwing, guns…oh, the Armour itself has arm blades too). I also forgot to mention that our guardians’ companion is the sky dragon.
So congratulations on winning an INTJ over! Yes, we sound like a prize because our mind and heart are our prized possessions if you will.
“Do you know why I chose you? Why i love you? Because I see forever in you and in us”.
Our love for you will be unconditional whereby all our senses and knowledge about you will be heightened. Like a dog, you will be our world; we want to be your favorite hello and your hardest goodbye. We want to be the first person that you touch and the last person that you taste.
We will protect all of you just as much as you would protect us. We will be your everything (as said in previous blogs; we will be you best friend, your Councillor, Therapist, your rock etc) – that is unless something happens with the relationship whereby you lose our trust and respect; consequently, this could make us walk away and erase you from our lives (Read my blog post: INTJ – Erasing You). Yes, even though you are our everything, we are still pretty rational; rationality is our core, it is who we are. So we will not be blinded by love (everyone is different though).
Anyways, to sum up our love, “we will love you until a mute man tells a deaf man about his blind friend who say a man with no legs walk on water”.
Even though investing our everything into you has a very overwhelming impact on our brain and heart (because we love very intensely) – the sad truth is that, you probably would never know just how deeply you impacted on us.
So if we do not manage to make you feel like you are our most cherished person out of over 7 billion people; re-read this blog to gain clarity and stability that if we are with you, then you are so worth our love.
***Please note that these blogs should NOT influence you to generalize that all INTJs, as a niche group, are all the same – because we are not; a lot of other factors shapes and individualizes a person.***